I've checked all my fuses and relays, and I'm down to the backuplight switch as the prob, but I can't seem to locate the damn thing...
any ideas on where it might be!? Thanks guys!

 

You don't say manual or automatic ???

 

If it is a 95 v6 venge you would need to replace the relay. You can buy a fog light relay that will make the backup lights work. This is only for an auto and not a man. You will see on the firewall three relays by the washer fluid container and one of them can be bad. I used a simple fog light relay for $5.00 and it fixed my backup light switch problem. You should be able to pull the switch out and press it in to make the lights go on. If it doesn't I would try this fix before buying a new switch. Well good luck.

 

The three relays on the firewall are NOT the reverse lights (see sticky above)... The switch on an automatic is on the front of the transmission

 

It's a manual...