What i would like to do is make it so i can turn on my fog lights with the factory switch when ever i want, Right now it is set so they only can turn on and off when i have my headlights on, but i want full control, Anyone know how to do this?

You have a 95-99 Neon, roght?
Behind the Fog lamp switch connector, look for Violet w/ White tracer wire, Jump that wire to constant power from somewhere, now you should be able to control fog independently.

I just went to look at the lights, and i only have 2 wires running from the fog light, a teal with a white stripe, and a solid black. here are some pictures

noo.... not the fog light bulb, I am talking about the switch near your steering column. The switch should have like 5 wires.

im wanting to make my fog lights stay one when i have my brights on in my 03 ram how would i go about doing that?

Ok, i did what you said, found the violet/white wire and spliced it in with a constant and threw it on a switch, but when i turned it on, it only turned on my low beams, not my fog lights