I'm getting code p1765 and po753 I've checked the relay in the fuse box under the hood and here's what I've found I've got batter voltage 13.8 at pin 3 I've got ign voltage 13.8 at pin 1 I've checked the ground at pin 2 and here is where things get strange when I plug in the relay I lose ground on pin 2. Any help would be great

 

Where are these 3 pins? The relay terminals aren't numbered that way. They are 30. 85, 86, 87, and 87A.