So my "homemade" pcv grommet seems to be working fine. Not sure what excatly was wrong with my truck but it seems to be running fine for now. None of the valve cover bolts were tight so thats probly why my oil was leaking. None of the sparks plugs were gapped right so thats probly why it wouldnt run. Now i just have to change the ignition stuff and the trans solenoids and it will be good as new.