I wish it's my friends garage good enough for me I'll let you know what happens thanks for the info

 

I had the same exact problem with my switch. If you put pressure down onto the lever in REVERSE the lights should come on if so it is definetley the Neutral Safety Switch once you get the connector off its a matter of just unbolting it and bolting the new one up....... I think i paid 23 dollars for mine. I don't believe you can adjust these like i have been told before. I forgot what i did for the connector i think its a tab you have to pry up on to release it on the bottom side nearest the lip of the pan.

 

Replaced switch for $20 works mint

 

I used a vice grip and yanked it off

 

Cool man glad you fixed it i know it gave me some troubles when i was troubleshooting what was wrong with mine.