Nuthing is going right with it took it out and i started geting stuck on the ice on my road so i pumped the gas and it died now my check engine and 4wd light are stuck on but the truck is in 2wd

 

check your fuel pressure. should be around 50 psi.
get them codes checked out and see what they say. thatll give you a clue about whats going on. as for the 4x4 light.. not sure

 

You can check the codes in this manner on a 97. http://dodgeram.info/Engine-Gas/OBDI/pcm_fault_code.htm

And I'm going out a limb here, but I'd say the cat is clogged, due to a blown plenum. There is also a good possibility the crank sensor is failing.

 

i reset my pcm and my check engine lights gone but the 4wd is still there and now when im driving i hear this pinging sound like some thing is tuching a metal fan but i cant find what it is or if it has some thing to do with the 4wd ahhh lol nuthing wants to go right

 

Does it sound kind of like marbles in a can?

 

ya it kinda did so far my all my lights are out on my dash and the sound is gone but still has that bogging thing

 

Marbles in a can sound is predetonation. Check plenum for signs of oil, pull upstream O2 sensor and start and see if it runs better.

I suspect plenum is blown and you will need to replace plenum gasket, O2 sensor is packed with crud and will need replaced, and the cat is clogged - and it will need replaced. These things left unresolved may cause a head to crack.

 

+1 on what he said^^^

 

code flashed 34

 

http://dodgeram.info/Engine-Gas/OBDI/Fault-34.htm