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Oh wow that is acually a lot more simple than I thought. My only question is on how the picture shows the high and low ends of the wires I am guessing that one of the lows and one of the highs goes to each bulb and is then grounded from the socket correct? And as far as connecting the relays with the diode what would be the best way to connect them with the diode being so small? Like I said I am no electrician or electronics guy lol. Also any recomendations on bulbs because I want a bright white or light blue just need ideas on brands and whats worth the money. Thanks.