Somehow the little red locking clip disappeared.
Is there someplace I can by the connector or shell?

 

Doesn't look like a red clip would help you. It looks like the side of the connector is broken off.

 

Its the black latch and the red locking clip but if I knew the connector I could salvage them from a new connector without having to extract all the pins and re-insert them into the new connector.
Any idea what the part number is?

 

I've never seen a connector listed as a separate part number. I've only seen complete wiring harnesses. I'd check online parts sources for the part number of either the connector or the wiring harness. Or, you could check local junk yards.

www.moparpartscorp.com
www.factorychryslerparts.com
www.moparwholesaleparts.com

...to name a few. Search engine will find more.