How do I look up getting any after market grills lights an taillights lifts and all bc nothing shows up for my Durango when I put it in to look ???

 

What site?

 

ive​​​​ive tried all different 4 wheel drive parts carid etc only thing that comes up is factory things an 1" or so leveling kits

 

So that’s probably all that’s available.

 

Check ebay, Amazon, etc.

 

As far as lifts are concerned, you can install any lift built and marketed for the 2011+ Jeep Grand Cherokee. There are a few.

Here is a complete kit by Rocky Road Outfitters, a decent company that has in the past gotten sketchy reviews for quality and design but the Jeep guys seem pretty happy with them lately...

http://www.rocky-road.com/wk2-lift-kit.html

If you have deep pockets and want to spend more money on what is probably a better quality and better designed lift by a well known, well-respected company, look here...

https://www.quadratec.com/products/76090_060X_A_PG.htm

or here...

https://www.quadratec.com/products/16193_1030_07.htm

If all else fails and you want to go the quick and dirty route, you can grab some Jeep TJ rear coil spring spacers, about 1" (which will get you 2" in our vehicles) for the rear, and some of these for the front...

https://www.ebay.com/itm/Front-2-LEV...BZ8XV8&vxp=mtr

And there ya go, boom 2" lift for around $200 and a day of wrenching. As of now, there isn't much that will get you more than 2" of lift on these vehicles but trust me, that's plenty. That will allow you to run in the neighborhood of a 32" tire and get some nice travel and off-roadability. These suspensions were simply not designed to be modified much more than that and if you do, you're going to start wearing out parts quickly and causing unsafe suspension and steering geometry which could endanger you.

Good luck.