where the hell does the silver cup go lol? rancho instructions are as follows take it apart put it back together with new parts. that helps so much.

 

I don't have the kit, nor have I installed one. However, I'm considering it and stumbled across this thread in a search. I found a pic on Dodge Talk of an installed unit. Not sure if it will help, but you can use this link and look at the pic for support.
http://www.dodgetalk.com/forums/show...ight=quicklift