I havemet her and I do not think she would have a affair. I think she loves you just trivial times. It will work out. Give her the attention you give Bruce and you will be fine.

 

I was actually referring to MY wife! Haha!

 

Guys I'm really sorry to hear all the problems on the home front. It really sucks.

What I'm worried about w/ all of you posting this is - - what if i11m10c2 gets an idea and tries to pull something - - which one of us will get the Forum???

All of you keep your chin up and your hearts happy. It sucks but take a minute to figure out what really makes you happy and feel whole then go for that.

 

ya sound so strong.... i havnt eaten all day. i love this girl. iv given her so much. i even let her drive the DIESEL! she brought so much joy and happyness in my life. i would of never straightened out and prob not even be here. i gave so much..lost so much and its like wat the hell were u thinking.
i would like to tell her all the mean and hurtful stuff i have to say. but a real man wouldnt do that. a real man would for give and move on. right?
i need a new turbo. all my probs would dissapear with that.

 

Guys, I don't envy your situations. Mine possibly happened early in our marriage. I still don't know and really at this point don't care. What I did was clear everything else from my mind, decide if my relationship was worth it to me or not. Only once I made up my mind could I begin to discuss it with her. Basically told her to do the same thing I did, make up her mind. We both decided that we would stay together and that has been that ever since. We just celebrated our 14th anniversary on 9/11. Yes we were married 9/11/93. It has been a long road to recovery, but we have a good life together now. Forget all the macho stuff, or how it looks to others, or any other BS that is not pertinent to your situation, and do what you heart tells you. BUT you must both be on the same page, if one is not completely commited to it then you MUST bail. BTW we tried the counselling thing, it is pure BS in my opinion. I don't have a high regard for counselers anyway.

 

really sorry to hear that. these situations really take a toll on a guy when they are hit from out of nowhere with it.

hell, it would be easier to take if she showed up with her boyfriend and packed her crap..
this mental game sht just wreaks havock on all guys who dont feel anything is a jar.

 

ok guys. if I am answern this questionare,so are you...

keep your answers to yourselves...and dont let the woman see either!!!

 

Do I count or am I special??? I haven't read it yet - - I stopped w/ your warning but man now I really want to

 

Go for it.

 

this surveytakes itboth ways. it doesnt care if your man or woman



I will post the author later this week. do not want copyright problems ya know.

the author saysto keep your answers from our partner at all costs. they will not understand your thoughts no more than you will understand theirs.


ok i trimmed the extra page off. you can right click each page and select "print picture". they print full page and easy to read.