I never thought I would do this myself much less tell someone else to do it but marriage counseling really does help a great deal. My wife and I both always think we are right, a counselor has helped us see each others points more clearly and how to work on them. As far as cheating goes, imo once that happens its over, I could never forget about it enough to carry on in the relationship like I should. Cookiemonster, if you were not together at the time it happened you really cant blame her, I know it doens make it hurt any less but makes it easier to deal with/forgive.

 

This is one of the reasons why this turned out to be my favorite forum, you can bet you won't see group counseling on any other forum.

 

good luck man

 

gee whiz guys. . .I'll just be 'celebrating' 2 years at the end of next month. . .

I lived through a rather nasty divorce with my parents, and things are still kinda sketchy between me and my dad, but after 17 years we are starting to talk more. . .my sis still doesnt want anything to do with him, my mom is about the same. There were many years where I would only see him or hear from him once. . .around x-mas. Since we have been talking more I can tell he knows he did wrong, and theres nothing he can do, heck, it took him 15 years to figure that one out; but what would you expect from someone who's got two Ph.D's. I believe it was the death of his mother back in april that showed him we are the only family he's got, he is an only child and his cousins used my g-mother. heck they werent in the will. . .yet they still had the audacity to believe they were entitled to something[:@]

alright, enough of that crap. . .I need to get to work[8D]

 

Drew fact of the day. 7243 posts divided by 728 days =9.949175824 average posts per day

 

lol. . .steve has 7.951/day. . .heck, check out badstrat. . .he's got 17.8/day

 

damn your slack'n . 17.8 is gonna be hard to beat.

 

I think I would have to do about 100 nposts per day for the next year to catch up with that

 

i need to work on my post ... im laggin big time. im thinking about selling the tacoma for 8g's... wat should i get?

 

so, has anyone followed through with the questionaire I posted??