I am looking to replace my huge SRT-4 wing with a smaller wing, like the one that comes on the basic Neon SXT. My question is this, if I remove the SRT-4 wing and install the SXT wing will the bolt holes be the same? The guys at the dealership could't tell me one way or another. Thanks for your help

it will fit. There are a few guys who have the sxt wing on their's

Now where can I get one painted for a fair price?

Check for a trade in the sxt forum. Post a WTB ad in the buy and sell forum here and on SRT forums.