Where is the solenoid located on the trans? Mine does this exact same thing in traffic.

 

where is that thing at?

 

It's located on the valvebody, here is a pic I found on ebay. This one is for 94-95 models.

 

I went by a tranny shop today that has done all of my transmissions in the past. He drove it, and said as much as he needs the work, that my tranny is acting perfect. He said it does everything as it should and sounds and feels great. But he said i had one hell of a miss, which i do on cylinder 8, by the code reader, i've changed the spark plug and wire on that cylinder with no change. I will start a new post with this issue. He said get the miss fixed and my truck should run and shift like a champ!