Check the tranny dipstick it should be stamped "Check in Neutral" somewhere on the metal.

This should help you out.

 

Well..I was at the dealership for the pan and the u-joint (they swear it's fine, but I know the sound) and asked them to check it out while it was lifted up. The trans pan gasket is leaking, but the pan looks like it's about to fall apart, lol. And the t-case was full.
So good news is, everything will be getting done either tomorrow or wednesday, depending if I'm working tomorrow or not.

 

Its on the back side of the t-case, little over halfway up. It's just a pipe plug. There is a drain plug at the bottom as well. NEVER remove the drain plug, until you are SURE the fill plug will come out.

have a look, they will be obvious.