You will want to replace those studs, and likely the lugnuts as well.

 

yep, and get some standard nuts for your spare so it won't happen again.

I think you're talking about these on your aluminum aftermarket wheels...







you need these for your steel wheel...

 

i could be wrong but it looks like you might even be getting damaged from whatever driving or moving you have done on it. i wouldn't worry about grinding a washer on an angle. just toss a washer in there and crank it down. and last but not least do not drive it anywhere with those studs as is. they are no good and need to be replaced

 

Tthese where original on my car. I've been using them for 4 years. I'm pretty sure the steel rim isn't ment for the dodge...

I've fixed it all last week, except the knuckle.

Gotten this new : 2x wheelhub + bearings & spline nut. 2x brake rotors, 1x lwr balljoint, 20x lugnuts.

 

Dodge did use that style steel wheel.