Or he could throw the money my way

I dunno, if she was a best friendof mine and needed help and I had the money I think I would have to disagree with ya boopadoopa, I would help her. Then again I dunno how close you guys are. Of course I am a super nice guy most of the time, kinda a downfall sometimes, but I know if my bestfriend needed help and i had the money Id give the money too him, and I am sure he'd do the same. I dont really have any best friends that are female, I mean I have female "friends" but thats a different story so I cant really say.

 

She would have had to wait for a CD to mature, but I woulda given her the grand towards a vehicle. She's close enough that when she made out a living will when she got her job, she asked me to take care of her kids in the event her mom was gone by then too (although her mom is only three or four years older than I am).
I lent her $500 when the last dude emptied her account and split, it was in Oct. of that year, at tax return time she had only been able to pay me back $150 of it, but gave me the rest when she got her return.
I'd give her the grand, and if I didn't get it back, oh well. I WOULD NOT, however co-sign, my credit score is immaculate and I'd only jeopardize that for a wife or kid.

I know the kid has got a lot of baggage, but she's always been really good to me, we could have probably had a really good relationship, but I was still in love with ex at the time and tried a reconcile without telling this one. She's made it clear that there will be no relationship again.
I'd walk away but I just can't manage to leave these:

 

I think i know what you are going through I mean I wasnt married or anything but I spent 4 yrs living with a dumb bitch and it ****** with ya! After it all going to shiit you still think you want her back, and lucyou kinda put the new women on the side that just throw themselves at ya, WTH are we thinking at that time. Not anymore though, I am done with her stupidity. I understand the co signing part, I did that once luckily, I was the signee and I let her cosign to build her credit and I had the funds to hold the car and my shiit at the same time so I was able to get out from under it and forced her to sign off, or I was gonna drag her *** through the court over it, but she was wise enough to sign off. Never again will I risk my credit for a women unless like you said its my wife, kid or immediate family.

Damn dude, you did take that one up the ***, she looks like a keeper even with two kids. As I grow older I start to not care so much about the baggage, it still bothers me, unless I find a definent keeper with some, hopefully not though.

 

I say one pump dump and run like hell! Lol Just kidding, I actually agree with Bolt, if I had a friend in need I would give them the money without hesitating. I mean after all it's just money. And may I say holy s*** those are nice lol. I actually also agree with Baracis, time to kick some ***!!!

 

IF she really is a close friend (keep the benefits out of this decision, not a good idea to start making financial decisions based on that) then I'd say do what you're thinking of and give her the money. If you're not 100% sure that the only reason you want to do this is for her as a friend you should sit down and think this through. When things are somewhat complicated like that it can be hard to make a good decision. Not trying to be harsh or anything, just sayin be aware of where your head's at If it's just about the "fun" remember there are other fish in the sea

 

Giving her the money is not the issue, the grand still won't push a loan through, it'd take me to co-sign, and that ain't happening. I'm just gonna sit back and see if this co-worker dude who is supposedly so head-over-heels for her that it's supposedly the reason he's getting a divorce will step up. I'm thinking he's all talk to get la*d, but won't sign on the dotted line. Dude is all talk (and thinks a Colorado is a superior vehicle to a Dak...

 

Good call on not co-signing, from what you've said about this guy I highly doubt he'd do it, when it comes time to put up or shut up most guys like that shut up...

 

Nice boobies!

 

Very true very true! You guys think pretty much on the same level as I do. Very good call hammer! Now let the fireworks begin

 

Don't be hypnotized by the *******... They are really nice *******...but they are also the problem. Ask yourself, would you still be around if it weren't for those *******? My guess is probably not. This thread has been very entertaining. My advice is to slowly back away from her. Are they real? Have you been tested for VD?