OK, would you guys believe this. I got the Radio trim off (with out F`n it up[sm=icon_rock.gif]) and removed the bottom storage tray thingy. I installed the 6 disc changer and it works with my stock radio with the jumper I got from Dodge. Put the whole thing back together but with out the storage tray thingy I need the trim peice for the changer. I'll go to Dodge and see if I can still get it.
Now for the Kicker woofer. I looked for the harness hole that LPS talked about. I didn't see anything. So I guess I'll still have to pull the speaker shelf. Unless someone out there has a better idea.